Should Nigerian Men stand on their porch/balcony only in underwear? #HNNOpinion

Nigerians reacted mixed with regards to this man I spotted yesterday when I went to buy bread. He was looking at me in the car just like that on the balcony and told me to come down and go inside to buy the bread. The bread lady turned out to be one of the ten or so tenants in the house. He had an erection, scared me and could possibly rape someone. Kids were running around. I stayed outside and the bread lady brought the fresh bread out and I took this picture. Some Nigerians say I violated his privacy. You don't have privacy when you dress like this in your underwear in PUBLIC. I am a Journalist. Every image is FREE.

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Describe this man I spotted this morning on his balcony when I was buying bread on his porch. Is this appropriate to step out like this?
Posted by Madam Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo on Saturday, October 24, 2015

Why I'm celebrating 9 years of #CELIBACY--Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo #HNNOpinion

I'm celebrating 9 years of celibacy. Last time I had SEX with a man was September 2006. I am NOT a lesbian as most Nigerians label me simply because I advocate gay rights and many of my pals in America are gays and lesbians. I promoted and endorsed sex toys for a British company in 2013 fooling Nigerians into thinking I used sex toys daily. that generated one stupid blog writing a headline I never said>> "No manhood can satisfy me" not even asking why? I have only tried a sex toy once in 2014. It felt awesome but not addictive. Sex is not a necessity especially with people like me who have no libido or interest in it. Besides, I had children out of wedlock and hoping to get married one day regardless of my age so I made a promise not to have sex till I marry someone.

Well, then I was circumcized as a girl, another reason not to enjoy sex like a normal woman since half your clitoris is gone to some ritualist's house, something my ugly late grandmother forced my mom to do to us. This practice has been stopped in most of Western Nigeria but it's still going on in many places around the world. Many women abstain for sex for long periods and men don't understand how it's possible. Justin Bieber's mom Patti Mallette is one. Google her to read her story. My first interview to talk about my celibacy was in Nigeria's leading tabloid soft sell magazine Global Excellence in 2013 when I spoke exclusively to Deputy Editor Folorunsho Hamsat at my 7 year itch anniversary.

O well, I am never horny, people ask me if I masturbate and I tell them NO! I have no chance of an STD and feel beautiful promoting celibacy to young girls in my city. Wait till you marry!--KOO

OPINION: WHY Nigerians need to STOP calling me Aunty or Mummy BEFORE I LOSE IT!-Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo

In this status, I yanked a record 18 ppl from my page who continued to abuse me, so you are just seeing only the ones that follow instructions.

WARNING: Dear Nigeria, pls DO NOT address me as Aunty or Mummy. I don't care about your respect, I did not grow up in Nigeria. My official name is Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo, Dr Kemi, DRKOO, KOO or Kemi. My last name is Omololu-Olunloyo NOT Olunloyo. So dont address me as Kemi Olunloyo. My father hyphenated his last name when I was 10yo to separate us from other Olunloyos with the same first names. My last name remains Omololu-Olunloyo because I have never been married in my life. This is a title crazy country so you address me with my title or my name or nicknames. Aunty is reserved for my nephews and nieces, Mummy is FOR MY CHILDREN. Don't resonate your illiterate mentalities to me. I simply HATE IT! I hope I made myself clear. I'm not going to repeat this.

Thanks
KOO

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  Adedigba Juwon Holawale I tired Ooo, cant u pple's hear simple instructions?

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo Simple instructions people. I already yanked 8 ppl permanently off my page. No discussions. PERIOD!

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo Arifalo Olawale Paul Adedigba Juwon HolawaleAlkali Mohammed Mohammed Dominic Sunday I appreciate it. When you start calling ppl uncle and aunty, you end up calling them that at job interviews and the wrong places. I have to respect my family titles. They belong to my family!

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  Yusuf Ayofe Dr, Madam, Pharm KOO, you said you have never been married but you have children. It means you are a divorcee

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo OMG!! The level of illiteracy on my page is so sad. You are a solid certified illiterate. A divorcee is a woman that got married and DIVORCED! Im not a divorcee. Im a single mom. Shame on the low class mentality here. Pls go back to school.http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/divorc%C3%A9e

  

  divorcée | a divorced person especially : a woman who is divorced

  MERRIAM-WEBSTER.COM

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  Yusuf Ayofe I have deduced what I need from your response. I see why @Ayourb earlier today on Twitter said you aren't qualified to counsel people on marriage

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo When did I become a marriage counselor. All you wannabees irritate me. Learn what words mean. I already put you on blast in a separate post

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  Francis Akinnola What has that got to do with the point she is making?

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  AbdualAzizu Abna Salihu Dr. Kemi has always tried to be civil and courteous, we need to reciprocate that, too.
  Peace.

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo Has nothing to do with courtesy. Anyone can call me Kemi or KOO but no family titles. My child calls his Principal Mrs while all the other kids call her Grandma. She's not his grandma so I clarified that when we started at that school. Everyone should address people the correct way

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  AbdualAzizu Abna Salihu You're quite right!
  We need to be very formal in other to get things in their right perspective.
  Good one!

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo You are not getting it. In America Im called Dr Kemi,, In Canada Im called Kemi. NOT Aunty or Mummy. People can call me Kemi and if they feel they need to respect me. Dr Kemi . You dont need to be formal. Just dont call me titles that belong to my family members.

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  AbdualAzizu Abna Salihu I got you, Kemi.
  I mean like you said about your son's teacher in school being addressed as, Mrs., is quite formal.
  What I mean to say is, respect is obviously abused in this part of the world, as demanded by so many.

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  Adekoya Oluwafemi Abisoye Sometime you need not blame people for their action cos environment and culture affect our reasoning sense (positively and negatively). This aunty/mummy stuff is burne out of the african tradition/culture of respect but if you choose to go by the way of Oyinbo then i wont be wronge if i address you as miss omololu olunloyo.

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo There is no oyinbo way. Address me BY MY NAME. Im not related to any of you

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  Adekoya Oluwafemi Abisoye Sure you're right kemi. Just hope other will understand.

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  Lanre Badmus Since we are not related by blood. I think you are right, Kemi. You've spoken well.

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo Simple instructions and they will still keep arguing.

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  Lanre Badmus Abi oooo. Lolzz

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  Ola Abass gud. Dr kemi will be preferred.

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo call me whatever is on that list but never aunty or mummy. Im not related to any of you.

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  Ola Abass smile.....

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  Saleh Bala Kemi-Kemi-ke-ke-ke-kemimimimi-keeeeeeeemiiiiiiii!

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  Kliffjay Igwilow Uzoma But you're Auty KOO you have a son wright?, I can't just understand you.

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo Your english is poor. Fix that first. Im not your Aunty because I have a son #Illiterate. The word is RIGHT not wright. AUNTY not Auty

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  Flora OnoKs IphEoma Ewww @Uzoma

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  Essien 'Gladsong' Offiong Hmmmmmm... Roasted 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

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  Onibudo Olayiwola Bob-Sherif Lol, English hard gan oo..

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  Adufe Lateef Is it upto dis

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  Francis Akinnola Thanks, Kemi. You are right. I love and appreciate your stand. Some would even talk to a man and ask him, "How is Mummy," when they actually mean "How is your wife." Stupid! I respect you for your opinion here.

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo One by one Ive been removing them off my page. 16 blocked now. I will not surround myself with these illiterates. Mostly Yorubas

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  Abiodun Awodipe Kemi your comment is well understood. The prefix aunty, uncle et al has cultural undertone in our society and failure to adhere to the nonesense you'll be seen as a non conformist or be said to be garrulous. I worked in an institution where such practi...See More

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  Dr Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo I understand the society part of it but I wish not to be part of that.

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  Dominic Sunday OK OOO I THINK U PEOPLE HEAR DR KOO.

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  Aminu Makanjuola Simple as that, like your spirit kemi...

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  Arifalo Olawale Paul Well noted Kemi.

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  Bola Ismail Okay now

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  Mayokun Akinyemi noted

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  Adedigba Juwon Holawale Noted!

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  Adedigba Juwon Holawale Wonderful!

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  Alkali Mohammed Mohammed Kudos

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  Omotunde Tosin Doc

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  Usman Rahmat I

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  Usman Rahmat I love the way you reason,Kemi,illiteracy is very high in Nigerian.

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